BEFORE I HURL THE QUESTION AT YOU, DOCTOR, HAD ANYONE TOLD YOU ABOUT THE PORSCHE, THE MERCEDES, THE FERRARI AND THE CONDOMINIUM?
SO YOU COULDN'T POSSIBLY KNOW WHAT THOSE GIFTS WERE TRIGGERED BY ANY ACT OR JUST OUT OF GENEROSITY?
-- IS IT TYPICAL FOR A VICTIM OF BATTERING WHO GOES THROUGH A DIVORCE, ESTABLISHES A LIFE OF HER OWN WITH A REASONABLY HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH THE EX WHO HAS GOT A LIFE OF HIS OWN AND A LOVE OF HIS LIFE --
OKAY. BUT IF SHE IS OUT OF HARM'S WAY AND IS A VICTIM, SHE IS HARDLY LIKELY TO DEMAND TO GET BACK INTO IT, TRUE?
IF NOT THREATENED. ONE OF THE THINGS THAT IS ALSO TRUE ABOUT BATTERING RELATIONSHIPS THAT FREQUENTLY GOES OVERLOOKED IS THAT MEN WHO ARE ABUSIVE WITH WOMEN ARE NOT CHRONICALLY ABUSIVE. THEY WERE NOT ABUSIVE EVERY DAY. THERE IS FREQUENTLY GREAT TIMES IN BETWEEN, AND WOMEN REPORT THIS. AND THERE IS A LOT OF REALLY ATTRACTIVE QUALITIES SOMETIMES ABOUT THE MAN WHO IS ALSO ABUSIVE. WOMEN COME INTO -- COME TO US ALL THE TIME -- OR MEN COMING INTO OUR GROUPS SAY, I DON'T WANT TO LOSE THE GUY, I DON'T WANT TO LOSE THE RELATIONSHIP, I WANT HIM TO STOP BEING VIOLENT. IF HE STOPPED BEING VIOLENT, HE'S REALLY A SWEET GUY, SO THERE COULD BE A LOT OF POSITIVE THINGS THAT WOULD DRAW THAT WOMAN BACK IF SHE FELT THAT MAN HAD NOW DIMINISHED HIS ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR.
JUST ASSUME THEN, HYPOTHETICALLY, THAT A YEAR AFTER THE DIVORCE TAKES PLACE IN THE MIDDLE OF '92, SAY, MAY OF '93, THE VICTIM SAYS I WOULD LIKE TO GET BACK TOGETHER.
AND AT THE END OF THAT YEAR THE ALLEGED BATTERER SAYS, I'M SORRY, HONEY, IT IS NOT WORKING AND WE ARE GOING TO TERMINATE. IS THAT TYPICAL CONDUCT IN THE BATTERED COUPLE?
SUPPOSING THE VICTIM, WHO IS NOT ALLOWED TO MOVE BACK INTO THE MARITAL HOME, THE FORMER MARITAL HOME, NONETHELESS HAS HER MAIL SENT THERE AS A PRELUDE TO AN ADVANCE.
ASSUME THAT AND ASSUME THAT WHEN THE VICTIM DISCOVERS THAT SHE CANNOT GET ALONG WITH THE LIVE-IN MAID SHE BEATS HER UP PHYSICALLY.
IS THAT CONSISTENT WITH A WOMAN WHO IS TRYING TO RUN AWAY FROM A THREATENING RELATIONSHIP OR ONE WHO IS TRYING TO GET BACK INTO A RELATIONSHIP?
WELL, ABOUT SOMETHING. I DON'T KNOW WHAT -- I MEAN, IT IS A HYPOTHETICAL CASE. IT IS HARD TO SAY, BUT SHE IS PLENTY ANGRY ABOUT SOMETHING.
-- OF ECONOMIC ABUSE WERE TO GET A LAWYER TO TELL THE VICTIM NOT TO CONSPIRE TO DEFRAUD THE UNITED STATES OUT OF $90,000, IS THAT ECONOMIC ABUSE OR IS THAT GOOD SENSE?
-- IN WHICH SHE IS LIVING WHICH UNDER U.S. TAX LAWS WOULD TRIGGER A CAPITAL GAINS LIABILITY OF ABOUT NINETY GRAND, ACCORDING TO HER ACCOUNTANT --
-- WHICH THE DEFENDANT HAS INSISTED SHE ESCROW IN CASE UNCLE SAM CATCHES UP, WANTS HIM TO SWEAR THAT SHE IS LIVING IN HIS HOUSE WHEN IT IS NOT TRUE AND HE HAS HIS LAWYER SAY WE CAN'T DO THAT, THAT IS CONSPIRACY TO COMMIT A FEDERAL FELONY, DON'T DO IT, IS THAT ECONOMIC ABUSE?
HE IS JUST FOLLOWING HIS LAWYER'S ORDERS -- THE WAY YOU ARE PUTTING IT TO ME, HE IS FOLLOWING HIS LAWYER'S ORDERS.
WELL, COUNSEL, I ASSUME WHAT IS GOING ON HERE IS A LITTLE PRETRIAL DISCOVERY IS WHAT IS GOING ON HERE.
I WOULD SAY THE WAY THAT YOU ARE DESCRIBING THE CASE TO ME, THIS MAN WOULD SIMPLY BE FOLLOWING HIS LAWYER'S ORDERS.
BUT HOPEFULLY NOT FEDERAL.
THAT IS NOT CONSISTENT WITH ANY PATTERN I HAVE EVER HEARD OF.
THE WAY YOU ARE PUTTING IT TO ME, HE IS SIMPLY FOLLOWING HIS LAWYER'S ORDERS.
SINCE WE DON'T HAVE A JURY HERE, I GIVE RATHER BROAD LEEWAY. WHEN WE GET TO TRIAL IT WILL BE VERY STRICT.